Our Treatment Philosophy.
Unconditional Positive Regard
Unconditional positive regard lays the foundation for deeper, more understanding connections by prioritizing mutual respect and open communication.
Unconditional positive regard is complete and non-judgmental acceptance, caring, and support of the client, regardless of whether the person does something wrong or makes a mistake. It means maintaining a non-judgmental stance even when the client displays behaviors that are morally wrong or harmful to their health or well-being. The goal is not to validate or condone these behaviors, but to create a safe space for the client to express themselves and navigate toward healthier behavior patterns. This complete acceptance and valuing of the client facilitates a positive and trusting relationship between the client and clinician, enabling the client to share openly and honestly.
There are several compelling explanations for why clinician unconditional positive regard facilitates good treatment outcomes, including enhancing clients’ self-acceptance and self-esteem (Cain, 2010; Rogers, 1980), promoting an internal locus of evaluation (Cain, 2010; Rogers, 1959), facilitating deeper self-exploration (Lietaer, 2001), and strengthening the therapeutic relationship (Suzuki, 2018).
Dealing with Trauma.
When a client reveals a traumatic experience such as abuse, assault, or a disturbing, vivid memory, the natural reaction may be disbelief, pity, or discomfort. However, by employing unconditional positive regard, a clinician responds with complete empathy, understanding, and non-judgment, focusing on the client’s emotional experience. The clinician affirms the client’s courage and strength in opening-up about painful memories. This provides a safe environment for the client to process trauma without fear of criticism.
Discussing Taboo Topics.
Clients may sometimes discuss topics that go against social norms or values, such as unconventional sexuality, criminal behavior, or socially unacceptable feelings. The clinician creates a space to accept these revelations without reacting with shock or discomfort.
Addressing Harmful Behaviors.
When behaviors like self-harm, substance abuse, or eating disorders arise, the instinct may be to view them negatively. However, a clinician who trusts in the client’s capacity for growth approaches without judgment, empathizing with the emotional motivations. They recognize the behavior served a purpose, while guiding the client toward healthier coping strategies.